Walking away halfway through an argument is one of the worst things a guy can do. Expectations hurt. Disappointments hurt. Frustrations hurt. I should have known, change is hard and he'll never change... or he would have long ago.
I'm not trying to win an argument, all i want is to speak the reason about what I'm upset with. Saying "I'm Sorry. But....*excuses*" doesn't sound sincere to me at all.
A simple "I'm sorry, I understand your point. I should not have fell asleep, I didn't mean to...Just too tired. I want to see you and make you happy since I made you angry yesterday. Please let me do something, what can i do to make it up to you?" can take an argument from 90 to 0, without having to necessarily give in.
But instead, you shut me down and brushed me off saying:
"Anything I say will just make you angry right"
"Forget it, i don't need your help. I'll just find other ways on my own."
*walks away*
Okay.
My heart hurts.
