Motivation

Time to plan out my resolution for year 2013, I always think it's just a year, number of days, as long as I am breathing and living up everything it'll be okay. In a blink of an eye, people around me has gone on with their lives after high school while I have nothing accomplished. 

I don't want to be that useless person in the society, I want to be able to earn my keep in life to have a comfortable future. I know that if I continue lazing around like how I've been in the past 2 years, I would, sadly be that useless person I don't want to be. Too late to cry over spilled milk & what's planned in time to come i hope to achieve. Bachelor of Business majoring in Marketing & Tourism, tough but i must persevere.

Alas,
Time really flies,
Youth,
only one period of time,
that I can never have it back

Love, angelseah

Judge to condemn.

Just when I thought I can finally take a break, hoping that there won't be more dramatic happenings coming up anytime soon... 

Oh who am I kidding honestly

Dear human nature,

Why, oh why do people judge by making assumptions? We all hate it when people judge, judging can't be avoided but to be wrongly judged is a mistake. Why can't people find out the truth before innocent ones are accused? 

I want to talk to a complete stranger, where all my problems can be dumped onto someone else's shoulder, someone who doesn't even know a single thing about you & someone you can trust to know that he/she won't even judge you. People who judge mindlessly is frightening and makes one feel confused to not know what he/she has done, will avoid such people in the future. Sometimes, it really is a blessing to have friends who spits out the ugly truth about you in the face instead of behind your back.

Period cramps in the middle of the night, 
lower back hurting and pain killers ain't helping. 
trying to get some sleep, with cold sweat.

Mood: annoyed and frustrated

Goodnight, 
peace.

Sniff sniff sniff

Felt sick but didn't want a break, because I felt the need to spend more time with you. It's frightening to think of what will happen in time and I am terrified.

Food almost seems like a close friend to me now and its not necessarily a good thing, health and figure wise. Getting flabby is not pretty! Just very overwhelmed and occupied by the recent good things/someone in life that i have nothing to complain about.

Tough times ahead, there are simply a lot of things to be done and fixed. The beginning of a new journey, problems & complications that lies ahead. Is this what life is, making our path as difficult as possible so we learn to appreciate our future? Sigh, life is complicated, and I need to compensate for the hurt i've caused. I'll try my best even when i know my best is still not enough, fight through all that & good times will come.... I hope?

Will sleep now, nose killing my eyes. All for now, xoxo.

"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right. You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together." ~ Marilyn Monroe

Hmm...

If love is all about reciprocate; then I don't think it's selfish.

Dear you,

Let's fall and embrace each other, tell me what's wrong or right. Thank you for guiding me, and lighting up my way. Chariot me, cause you're oddly the only one. With everything that have been bringing me down, I know it's you who I can run to, back to you in safe arms. Just when I thought you are the usual come and go, you tell me you come to stay. That words and action of yours, as steady as anything, made you oddly the only one that I know I could never avoid, cause you are my safe-heaven when a bad day falls. How you caught me off guard is indescribably you. & I want to thank you for being here. Holding a smile here, we don't need that name to prove us but I need the closure. Being with you, even once in a blue moon is enough to start a fairytale story. The kind we know that we are still in love inside but least mentioned together. 

Life is gonna be mundane when you’re gone.

Dilemma

How do i choose between someone who I've lost feelings for months ago only to wish that i can go back in time to search of those feelings back. While the other whom i cannot possibly give my faith to because of the words he wrote. Call me insecure but i don't want to feel like a substitute, afraid to make the wrong choice & only to see it happen again. 

Unfortunately, a decision like this isn't always as easy as flipping a coin. At the same time i brought this on myself & i deserve the pain and anguish that i brought upon.

Questions in my mind, can't say that i'm fine.

I know there has to be just one. 

I need an affirmation, an assurance.

I don’t know I just feel like I should stop thinking about it but I can’t. Maybe I’ve seen too many movies, you know, love at first sight. What do you think about love at first sight? You think you can love somebody just by looking at ‘em? But the thing is, man, I felt like I knew her. You know. You ever get that feeling? - Blue Valentine

Afraid & Confused

I don't want just another bad romance story, I want a beautiful awakening from within.. That I have always yearn for, chivalry seems dead these days. It's so selfish that everyone wants or expect something from that someone, but I guess this is how it suppose to be. Time to decide & plan wisely, one mistake, gonna cost me a regret.

Look after you - The Fray

The meaning of this beautiful love song, about a feeling so strong toward love.

"if i don't say this now , i will surely break" , showing how if he doesn't tell her he loves her, he will for sure be broken because he can't contain his feelings any longer.

The chorus "Be my baby & there now steady love, so few come and don't go. will you, won't you be the one i'll always know" - His proposal to her to become his, asking if he'll be the one in their life.

In return he offers to "Look after you & if ever there was a doubt, my love she leans into me." He promises to take care of her, and if ever there is a slight confusion, stir, suspect, he is the one she can rely on.

"Its always have and never hold" - He always have her but never yet had her and wants to take the next step to fully justify his love for her hoping to create a new chapter with her.

&

"You've begun to feel like home & what's mine is yours to make your own" She's the only one for him & that even she leave or take he is always hers.

To remind me true love exist,
Time really flies, alas.

Don't know why

I am playing dota 2 on my lousy old laptop which i think is going to burn up & go bsod on me soon. So far so good because i'm winning every round with bots being an amateur and all, funny playing with Yee Fong when I couldn't differentiate between him & the other bot heroes. Thought a bot was him for quite sometime before asking why was he not killing anything only to then realize that he was no where near me the first half of the match :| So damn noob wanna cry

Wanting to play with Desmond as he is also a new comer in the team, contemplating to wait another few more days before teaming up since i've only been playing for less then half a day.

Shall go play another round right now, alone ;(

"When I look in your eyes
I can feel the butterflies
God I'm so confused,
please split me in two"

- angelseah

NEXT

Finally blogging again after so long. Which means that life is good, days are smooth and no-drama which is what I hope for it to be. 

However, this normality did not last as long as I thought it would.

What will you do when someone you trusted at that moment in time forsake you in times of trouble? Still had the guts to ask why he/she always don't have friends. Well, I decided to become your friend am truly sad to say that i really regret knowing you. Now I finally understand why you don't have friends. Lol.

9 out of 10 people bitch & love gossiping, it's a healthy way to bond with friends. We can't judge people for bitching or gossiping because we do too, it's only fair. 

Despite that, there's a bottom line to draw when bitching too. 

To why you've got no friends: Riona

1. You bitch about people I* don't even know, downgrading your own friends when I'm just a stranger to them. I don't want to judge anyone w/o knowing them.

2. You hate your friends behind their back but act as though you like them when you meet.

3. You complain about how you dislike friends copying your style when you do it too.

4. You actually bitched about my friend (right to my face) of 5 years when you only know her for a year. Wow, the courage.

5. You dare use my words as your own, making it as though I'm the one that talk shit.

6. You like to assume about tons of things & instantly judging everything at face value... not bothering to know or try to find out the truth before judging.

7. You get angry almost at random times, making one feel clueless what he/she had done wrong. When you don't even tell them why.

8. You say that you hate this friend who constantly criticize and scold people everyday but ahem... you do that too.

9. You contradict yourself and do things that you said you never ever will the next.

10. You lied to my friend making her believe your story when there are many loop holes in it. Do you think we're stupid?

11. You always get angry, it's okay. You don't explain why, it's okay. But it's not okay to complain to other people who only listens to your pov.

12. You make yourself look pitiful to make people stand by you.

13. If you hate me so much as to block me, please don't do things that you've learned from knowing me. Quit working the event jobs i introduced to you, quit looking for jobs from places I've told you about. I don't want to see you tbh.

I tried to ignore your many bad points even when i found out everything bad about you, but ended up getting badmouthed about behind my back instead. Truth is, i did not bitch nor badmouth anything about you to my own friends nor friends that you know of at all. I know you said things behind my back but I kept quiet and personal about it. 

But this time, things have changed. I'm not going to be stepped on by a bitch like you. I'll tell the entire world about the real you if i could. If you're telling me that i too have bitched about my own friend, yes i don't deny that. But, let me tell you this. The complains I made wasn't a secret at all because my friend knows it, because I always complain about them in front of them. LOL.

I told you '习惯就好', guess you're just stupid enough to not think about it. 

Goodbye fake friend.

Cheers,
angelseah