Congratulations!
Hey, my best-friend got engaged! ❤❤❤ I genuinely wish this couple a lifetime full of happiness, good health & plenty of wealth because these are the most practical important things in life no? :D Thanks to this event we got closer with one another's clique and even had a group name formed called "ONE COMMON THING". Hahaha Inside joke.
A day before the ROM we had a Hen's night aka bachelorette's party! I guess things went kinda well with our last minute planning and even though the girls got pissed with the groom-to-be but in the end we still had a blast! :D Took helluva pictures and videos as keepsakes to laugh at in the future. The groom-to-be didn't want anything drastic happening to his 'bride' but this is alright, right? I hope. After all, this can only happen once in a lifetime :D
A day after the ROM, the clique had an agreement to 'settle' their displeasure they had with the groom on whatsapp. I didn't join their heated discussion not because I didn't want to, but deep down I felt that it's just...wrong. I mean, 8 of us vs 1 guy?? What are the odds? I'm just kinda surprised that how childish and narrow minded can people get, getting angry and argue just for argumentative's sake! We've gotta live and let live.. we're not the ones marrying the groom, who cares about changing his character if he doesn't want to be changed! I feel that shouldn't minimal respect be given to your friend and her (now) husband? How would you like if we were to put your husband or boyfriend down without consulting you first? Do you even respect your own friend? How would you feel if you were in your friend's shoes? Stuck right in the middle of your mindless argument. Have you guys thought of the many consequences after satisfying your simple selfish need for complain?
Disgraceful.
Of course though friends will be friends, but that doesn't mean that we should agree with their wrongs and forget what's right. Making a mountain out of a molehill, adding oil to the fire and stir shit out of nothing.. is that necessary? She's our friend & he is her husband now. Please have some faith in our friend, she's old enough to know what she wants, whats right and whats wrong. She isn't one to support her husband even if he's in the wrong! Why don't you guys understand.. You guys can tell this to her husband but what about yourself? Friends need to have trust too, not only in marriage. Besides, it's not up to us to decide on how they love each other whether we like it or not. By having this 'voicing' out of your opinions, does it really matter? What outcome are you expecting from the groom in the end? The most he can do is apologize and change, and even though he apologize everyone still wasn't happy at all. What do you want him to do to you that will appease your anger? Beg? Kneel? Nothing. It all comes down to nothing. No conclusion at all.
It's all just a fucking waste of time and energy.
Well, after the entire drama ended I followed my heart and explained my reason for not joining their stupid convo with the groom. Some managed to understand my point of view and I'm thankful for that. But some actually said why didn't I stop them. Will they even listen to me??? Lame la. Heck, i shouldn't be bothered by this. this is not my game.
No matter what, friend, I've got your back. Most certain.
"An entire sea of water can't sink a ship unless it gets inside the ship.
Similarly the negativity of the world can't put you down
unless you allow it to get inside you."
DON'T DROWN IN NEGATIVITY.
angelseah, signing off~
Goodnight
.JPG)
.JPG)